A crush is a beautiful thing! Your mind plays with the idea that you could actually be with him sometime and have the most magnificent of relationships ever.
It almost seems epic if your crush even as much as looks at you for a little over two seconds! And if ever you come in about one foot of proximity, the world seems such a wonderful planet to be born in!
However, the truth is that all these weird and unearthly feelings are just a concoction of some naughty hormones playing with your brain. Remember that each one of us has been crushed in our lives and it is difficult to get over them.
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But even if it takes too much time, eventually we actually do get over our crushes because having a crush and loving someone are two very different things.
You should understand that the chances of your crush being your life partner are less and you are most likely to feel depressed if you receive ‘no’ as an answer from your crush. Thus, you need to get over your crush and look for true love instead. Here are 5 effective ways how you can get over your crush.
- Stop thinking about him
In order to get over your crush, you first need to stop thinking about him. This is indeed difficult and needs plenty of determination and willpower to be able to accomplish. But you need to control your mind and refrain from getting lost in thoughts about him.
- Stop fantasizing about being with him
You must stop fantasizing about him immediately. The very thought of being with your crush is so irresistible that you simply cannot let go of such a wonderful idea because of the way it makes you feel. But unless you stop feeling that way, you will not be able to get over him.
- Remember you are not in love
Mostly, a crush is an infatuation and rarely has any bearing on true love. Also, you should consider that he does not love you. Otherwise, he would not have been still a crush – he would have become a lover or a friend. Remember that you are not in love and it is love that you should seek, not fantasy.
- Maintain distance
You should maintain a good distance from your crush in order to remove all thoughts relating to him from your mind. If, however, you come close accidentally, talk to him normally, spend time with him and you may just find flaws and get over him. Never act weird in front of him as it will be perceived as being desperate and you will not like the way you are going to be treated.
- Meet more eligible guys
Remember that there are many guys out there in the world who are handsome and single. Your crush is not one of his kind, however impossibly cute and charming he may now appear to be. Go out and meet more eligible guys and you will be able to get over your crush.