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The art of Seduction

Seduction has always been the most exciting thing in a relationship. The thrill of seduction sometimes lies in the chase rather than the conquest, the excitement of wanting and pursuing someone can give in itself a sense of satisfaction and craving at the same time. Such is the bitter sweet charm of seduction. However, at the end you do want him to fall hopelessly for you. Read on to know a few effective tips that will surely knock him off his feet.

When it comes to women, they love dressing up for their man, but when it comes to seducing men and make them crave till their throat, Show a little, but hide a little more! There’s always a way of dressing that drives men crazy. Something mysteriously sexy, sultry yet modest! When trying to make men want more, always try to feel sexy rather then look sexy. Trying-hard-to-look sexy evokes desperation that is a big turn off for most men. However feeling sexy is the perfect balance between showing and hiding your womanly qualities. You can enhance some of your body regions without actually showing anything.

The most important thing is ‘your fragrance’ which reflects your soul. The scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect our judgments. You can enhance your natural appeal with the power of fragrance. Use a perfume, which is charming and mysterious but make sure not to overdo it, and use the same perfume every time you meet your man so that it gets imprinted on his mind as a part of you. Use it sparingly on your body’s pulse points: wrist, behind your ears, in the bend of your elbow, behind your knees and on the inside of your ankle. You can also try to spray the perfume in the air in front of you and walk into the mist.

One of the most obvious seduction tips for women is that you have to be super confident on yourself when seducing a man. Be proud of what you are and what you do, feel special for men love this in a woman. They find it irresistible.

Action speaks louder than words when it coming to seducing men. Send him little signs of interest from time to time that make come forward. Such as show unclenched hands, play with your hair or caress other objects, pick some fluff of his jacket (even if there is none ;) face him directly and slightly lean forward every now and then, wet and bite your lips from time to time.

Men love the chase game, so keep the game tempting and irresistible. Delay the gratification,  Make two steps forward, and then one step back as anticipation, excitement and tension can be a huge turn-on for men. Contradict Yourself! Use the before mentioned signs of interest, then suddenly show disinterest, ignore him for two minutes. Then start again. Two steps forward, one step back.

Use the power of ‘killing eyes’ which includes a side long playful glance but the moment he looks at you lower your eyes and put on an embarrassed smile. Use the ‘playful innocence’ technique to woo your man to death! This is also flirting without talking, yet it’s far more killing and alluring.

Last but not the least, when you reach for something, try to accidentally touch his hand, but don’t make it too obvious. The secret is being whimsical and playful with casual touches now and then, which creates tension and also a physical connection.

However, there is a slightest difference between doing it and overdoing it. Make sure you keep the perfect balance between ‘subtle’ and ‘obvious’ he must not feel seduced rather he must think that he seduced you, not the other way around. Give him his victory and your victory is guaranteed!

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