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Ben Affleck doesn’t blame ex-wife Jenifer Garner for his drinking problems, claims her comments were ‘mischaracterized’

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Ben Affleck is clarifying his “mischaracterized” words from a previous interview. The “Justice League” star recalled the backlash he received following his 2021 interview on SiriusXM’s “The Howard Stern Show,” when he detailed his alcohol problem and the end of his marriage to Jennifer Garner, with whom he has children Violet, 17, Seraphina, 14, and Samuel, 11.

Affleck told THR that he avoids Instagram and is wary of interviews because of “a really painful experience where I had an interview where I was really vulnerable, and the entire pickup was not only not right, it was actually the opposite of what I meant.”

The Oscar winner, who is now married to Jennifer Lopez, stated that he never blamed his ex-wife for his drinking during that dinner.

“The idea that I was blaming my wife for my drinking. To be clear, my behavior is my responsibility entirely,” Affleck explained. “The point that I was trying to make was a sad one. Anyone who’s been through divorce makes that calculus of, How much do we try?”

The “Argo” star emphasized that he and Garner loved one other and still care about and respect each other after calling it quits in 2015 after a decade together.

“I was trying to say, ‘Hey, look, I was drinking too much, and the less happy you become, whether it’s your job, your marriage, it’s just that as your life becomes more difficult, if you’re doing things to fill a hole that aren’t healthy, you’re going to start doing more of those things,'” he explained of the 2021 interview.

During his interview with Stern, Affleck confessed that he believed he was “pretty articulate” about the message he wanted to convey.

However, he told THR he believes his quotes were “mischaracterized … in order to make it clickbait” and “it didn’t matter how many times I said, ‘I do not feel this way. I’m telling you, I don’t blame my ex-wife for my alcoholism.'”

During his 2021 interview, Affleck told Stern, “We had a marriage that didn’t work, this happens,” before calling Garner someone “I love and respect, but to whom I shouldn’t be married any longer. And we said, ‘You know what? We don’t want that.'”

Affleck went on to say, “Ultimately, we tried, we tried, we tried because we had kids. And both of us felt like we don’t want this to be the model that our kids see of marriage,” noting that they would probably be “at each other’s throats.”

He then added, “I probably [would] still be drinking. You know, like, it was just part of why I started drinking alcohol was I was trapped. You know, I was like, I can’t leave because of my kids, but I’m not happy. What do I do? And what I did was like drink a bottle of scotch and fall asleep on the couch, which turned out not to be the solution.”

Soon after his comments went viral, the “Gone Girl” star stated on “Jimmy Kimmel Live!” that they were taken out of context.

“They had literally taken the conversation that I had had for two hours and made it seem as if I was doing the exact opposite of what I said,” Affleck explained in the coverage of his Stern interview.

“It said that I had blamed my ex-wife for my alcoholism, that I was trapped in this marriage — just made me out to be the worst, most insensitive, stupid, awful guy,” he added to the reports. “That’s not true. I don’t believe that — it’s the exact opposite of who I am, what I believe, and I would never want my kids to ever say a bad word about their mom.”

Despite his concerns about the interview’s coverage, Affleck stated that he was “really happy” with how his talk with Stern went.

“Because the movie is about family and all this stuff that’s meaningful to me, we talked a lot about my family, divorce, alcoholism, and struggling with real things,” Affleck told Kimmel. “How you have to be accountable and loving, and how I work with my ex-wife and how I’m so proud of the way that we work together for our kids to the best that we can for them. I was really happy with it. I thought I should do more honest, exploratory, self-evaluating things.”

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